Why does she give you critical feedback?

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She gives you feedback that you find uncomfortable (she finds it so too, but she overcomes her discomfort of it for you) because…

She tries to help you see what you are capable of because…

She tries to help you see the opportunity you have and all that you can be because…

She sends you on a course or gives you advice (which you mistake for an insult) because…

She treats you like an adult when you are fearful and would rather be treated like a child, because…

…she doesn’t want you to fail.

She doesn’t want you to fail. That’s why. (OK I’m assuming you’ve got all the know-it-all, censorious sociopaths out of your life by now.)

If she didn’t do this it would mean she doesn’t care about you (maybe) or you’ve made it too hard for her to help you (often nearer the mark).

Turning it around, if there’s someone in your life who you’d like to see succeed, are you doing this stuff for them?

 

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